Jun 6, 2022Member-onlyKeeping PRIDE Visible All Year LongAnd 5 Other Ways To Support The Folx You Love — Recently, a family member I had not seen for a while casually asked me how “my girls” were doing. She meant well by the inquiry, I am sure. She probably did not realize her faux-pas, at least not at first. In the past, I usually chose to correct this error…LGBTQ4 min readLGBTQ4 min read
Apr 7, 2022Member-onlyI Learned The Meaning Of Authenticity From My Son’s Transition.And along the way I found myself. — As my son transitioned, I did too! How could I not? I pledged to walk this path with him. If there is one major life lesson I acquired along the way it is this: Let go of the past because if you are always looking back you will miss the…Authenticity5 min readAuthenticity5 min read
Sep 26, 2021Member-onlyThe Tree of AgesA short story of life, love, and moving on. She leans back against its trunk. The rough feel of tree bark pushes into her spine and skin. Closing her eyes she lets the warm summer breeze blow across her face, slightly rumpling her hair. …Fiction5 min readFiction5 min read
Sep 26, 2021Member-onlyA Divergent RoadAnd the decision of her life — “Where am I going?” she mutters. Pulling up to the red stoplight, she compresses lightly down on the brake with her left foot, which slipped partly out of her Birkenstock, allowing the car to roll to a halt. …Writer4 min readWriter4 min read
Published in Family Matters·Jul 21, 2021Member-onlyWhen Your Kid Moves Out, It’s Okay to Feel LossJust remember to embrace the pride you feel for them too. — As I pulled out of the driveway, my eyes misted over and there was a physical catch in my throat. The car slowly moved out into the street and away from my daughter’s new apartment. Also away from my daughter. If there is any song fitting enough to be the…Parenting5 min readParenting5 min read
Published in Middle-Pause·Jul 20, 2021Member-onlyHow to Get Started with a Gratitude JournalFinding happiness in the big and small of everyday life — We all desire more happiness in our lives. Right? What if I told you there is happiness and goodness right in front of you? Would you believe me? Sometimes we look for happiness outside ourselves. It might seem like our partner makes us happy or having a big home, a…Gratefulness4 min readGratefulness4 min read
Published in LGBTQueer-ies·Feb 5, 2021Member-onlyHow a Family Bed Builds Strong RelationshipsOr how giving our kids a soft place to land also gives us a chance to listen. — Walking through our small town, I stop in a local thrift store just to browse around, killing time. …Parenting7 min readParenting7 min read
Published in A Year of Ritual·Feb 1, 2021Member-onlyWinter is Not Coming, But Coming to a Close.A short story on Imbolc or Brigid’s Day — The rain continues outside. It has been continuous all day with no clearing in sight. Perhaps it will be an early spring. Good thing she collected the reeds from the marsh several days ago when the skies had been bluer. …Ritual3 min readRitual3 min read
Jan 28, 2021Member-onlySometimes Better ApartA poem and reflection — I thought it was forever Why are my thoughts drifting Back upon the days — our days As time has marched on We have become more whole Individually, separately, apart. I, to discover myself maybe uncover myself. You, to find strength, To find another. Find more of my work coming…Poetry1 min readPoetry1 min read